You don’t need more. You need better.
I just got a new Nikon D3100 digital SLR camera. I’ve always wanted to learn more about photography and have more control over my photos, and with our honeymoon coming up it seemed like a good time.
We’ve already covered getting the ring and proposal, so now let’s talk about planning the wedding. If you’re lucky like me, your fiance is a super organized planner. If not, here are some things you might want to recommend.
Yup, long time no bloggy. I’ve been working on a special project that’s going to reap rewards for my entire lifetime. That project is foreign to many men, especially engineers so I attempt to distill the past 10-11 months into one place.
- No bezeled gems: They don’t let enough light in for full sparkly goodness
- No barrel cut gems: They look glassy and fake
- No encrustations (lots of little diamonds)
- No asymmetric rings
- Nothing that sticks out too much or has sharp corners
- No yellow gold
- Nothing too thick or heavy for her delicate hands
- Classic looking without being common looking
- No diamond as the main stone, but auxiliary diamonds ok
- If the hard drive fails I want to have stuff stored on another disk.
- If I change a project by experimenting and that experiment fails, I want to be able to revert changes quickly and easily across all files.
Thu and I got Xootr kick scooters last weekend. They are pretty awesome.
My beloved Mac Mini died a while ago. The hard drive went out, so it failed to boot but I had it backed up (Go Time Machine!) so I didn’t lose anything. This would be a pretty epic failure for most, but I’m a computer guy so it wasn’t a huge worry for me.
I’m getting married! I’ll start from the end and work backwards.
Most recently, we put up our website at http://www.DreamMerger.com/, so I can finally blog and link to it. You can also just google for [Troy and Thu Wedding] because we’re awesome and have the top hit. You’ll have to do that because we don’t yet have a lot of details like time or location (who said you’re invited?) but you may read our stories and get to know us. We’ve always joked how an Apple and Google employee would be like a corporate merger, hence Dream Merger.
Secondly, the proposal was accepted in Boulder, Colorado under the beautiful Flatirons while we took a 4th of July holiday. Boulder is a special place for me, and I selfishly wanted to plant pleasant memories in Thu’s head of the most beautiful place in the world. I don’t think I needed to buy a rock for that, but it didn’t hurt.
And firstly, the ring I selected is a sapphire stone accented by small diamonds. Thu and I had been shopping so I could understand what she liked. Instead, she told me all the things she didn’t like and I took lots of notes on my iPhone so I could extrapolate what she wanted. Wanting it to be a surprise, I took the day off work and rode the Bart into San Francisco to the San Francisco Provident Loan Association where Ben and Allison made me an extremely happy customer.
Jump back with me to WWDC ’09 (2 months ago), I had just finished presenting Quartz Composer to hundreds of raving developers and knew I’d finally have some time to go ring shopping. SFPLA was the highest rated jewelry store on Yelp so I walked up to Mission street where they are located. For those of you who know San Francisco neighborhoods, Mission district can be -colorful-; so it comes at no surprise that the building looked like a cross between a 1920s bank and a jail with bars on the windows and thick plastered walls.
But the ominous exterior was no indication of the attitude within. I met Ben for the first time, and he made me feel so comfortable answering my questions about rings, giving me advice about the proposal itself. He recently got married himself, so it was like having an older brother in the jewelry business. I felt no pressure at all and he was very knowledgeable.
Contrast this with some of the places that Thu and I went after that day with shoddy quality and low customer service. The sales associates would push certain styles and “bling” on us. One place even tried to pass the softer, cheaper tanzanite off as sapphire while whispering to each other in vietnamese. Never go ring shopping at the Grand Century mall in San Jose!
So I played hooky and returned to SFPLA on the last day of June. Thu and I were leaving for Colorado the next day, so I didn’t have much hope to buy a ring in one day. I talked to Ben some more, and also met Allison who reminded me of a conspiring little sister. She was so excited by my ring selection and it really balanced Ben’s stoic humbleness so I felt both confident and excited by the duo.
The two of them were able to get it done, even going so far as to shut down the jewelry portion of the store in order to rush out to their gem suppliers to get me stones to look at, brought the different choices out of lockdown into the sunlight and within reach of that shady Mission neighborhood, then put a rush order on the setting and cleaning so it could be done before I left the city that day. It was all so perfect, and I cannot say enough about them, or the ring that Thu very much enjoys.